I’ve recently gone back to work full time and am still learning time management between Work Me and Home Me as evidenced by the state of my house and that steamy dream I had where maids came in and deep cleaned my home. They were wearing baggy jeans and t-shirts because the tres-la-la part was the cleaning. I mean ceiling to baseboard. So choice.
I haven’t worked full time since 2008, and I left my part time job in 2013. My whole work gig has been based around the kids: either they could come to work with me or I worked around their school hours. I moved to part time because I was juggling a whole new world Aladdin and Jasmine failed to mention on the flying carpet. My employer “got” autism as it was an early intervention program so I had some leeway many parents don’t when it comes to work. I have been very fortunate in that sense.
Now that I’m back to work full time, it’s still about the kids, just for different reasons. The “baby” goes to Pre-K this August and was begging to go to preschool this year – “school like brothers”. Why would I continue to be a stay at home mom if there is no one home to stay at home with?? This gives us the chance to send him to preschool with purpose, save money, pay off debt, and the place I am working may very well be a place Aiden and his buddies utilize in the not-too-distant future.
All of that rambling is to say the work conflict is HARD whether or not it is a choice. I just started a month ago, and have been guilted about a valentines day party, a jumprope for heart event AND a field trip by Mr. Six. He’s used to Mom being at the stuff so I can’t blame him, but cmon kid, put down the shiv of shame for just a minute!
I want to start highlighting individuals or families bopping around with autism who balance that trifecta of Life, Work, and Spectrum. Some of us are working outside of the home, some from home, and some have even started their own businesses. It is a tightrope extravaganza some days and my goal here is to high five and thumbs up and positively reinforce the hardworking folks I highlight. If they are running their own business, please take a minute and check out their links. It’s like Keep it Local but for the autism tribe (I can’t think of something catchy yet, but Im all ears!)
ANGELA OWENS – ORIGAMI OWL CUSTOM JEWELRY
Angela and her husband have three amazing kiddos. Two of her kids have autism with some co-morbid diagnoses including adhd, ocd, and spd. She’s both a stay at home and work from home mom out of necessity. This #bossmom has started working with Origami Owl, an online custom jewelry shop that has something for everyone. Angela’s site is filled with incredible options to choose from. She also has a facebook page if you have any questions about the pieces or want to speak with her directly for a more personal shopping experience.
Autism Awareness month is just around the corner….I’m just sayin’……
I don’t want to give too much away because the site is well worth the lookie-loo, but I will say it is not just autism charms. There are all sorts of goodies: watches, earrings, bracelets, and my favorite: a locket you can wear that you add essential oils to for a daily dose of relaxation and calm or alert and groovin’ – whatever your EO jam may be!
If you’d like to be highlighted, let me know with a quick email or comment. Happy Tuesday!